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Expert Psychotherapist writes on Smart Decisions for Women, Dating Advice, Recovery, Growing Out of Dysfunction, and Relationships

    

Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D., "Dr. Romance," http://www.tinatessina.com,  is a licensed psychotherapist in S. California, with 35+ years experience in counseling individuals and couples and CRO (Chief Romance Officer) for Love Filter - the Relationships Website.  She's the author of 13 books in 17 languages, including Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Fighting About the Three Things That Can Ruin Your Marriage; Lovestyles: How to Celebrate Your Differences; and The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again.  She publishes the Happiness Tips from Tina email newsletter, and the Dr. Romance Blog. She has written for and been interviewed in many national publications, and she has appeared on Oprah, Larry King Live and many other TV and radio shows.


 

“I love your books. I always kind of shied away from self help books as I was embarassed to think that I could not solve problems myself. Then I picked up your books and realized just how self efficent I really can be. You have changed my life in so many ways and I canot thank you enough for becoming a writer.” —Amanda, Biloxi MS

“I cannot thank you enough for the books you have written. We are just now going through a sensitive and delicate time with our daughter and one of your books is helping all of us cope and understand. You are keeping us all on the same page and that is something I will forever be grateful for.” Laura, Westwego,La

 



Birth Place: Palisades Park, NJ USA

Accomplishments:

Member American Society of Journalists and Authors; McNaughton Selection Designee;


Diplomate American Psychotherapy Association


Licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California (MFT 13629) Member National Writers Union

     



Books

Money, Sex and Kids: by Tina B Tessina
Stop Fighting about the Three Things That Can Ruin Your Marriage! "With a Ph.D., eight books, and 30 years of counseling experience under her belt, [Redbook Love Expert] Tina [Tessina] has a lot to say about the everydays of life and love." --Redbook.ivillage.com. Have a workable,satisfying relationship without arguing or fighting. ...
  

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The Commuter Marriage: Keep Your Relationship Close While You’re Far Apart by Tina B Tessina
Your marriage vows may have said, “'til death do us part” but no one said anything about what happens when career, circumstances, or a child or family member with a problem makes it necessary for you to part, and you want to maintain the closeness in your relationship. Being married at a distance is not as unusual as you may think. More and more couples are being separated by work, money and fami...
  

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It Ends With You: Grow Up and Out of Dysfunction by Tina B Tessina
Each of us receives a legacy from childhood and family experience, which becomes a powerful influence, and about which we have no choice. It Ends With You shows you how to uncover your hidden legacy, change whatever is problematic, and create personal power over your own life. This book examines not just the statistics that show that children of divorce can't keep their own marriages together...
  

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The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again by Tina B Tessina
The inside scoop on getting back into the dating scene. Unbiased, no-nonsense advice on making dating fun, safe and successful. All the facts you need to take control of your dating life, no matter your age or experience. Special advice for single parents, online dating, sexual safety....
  

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The Real Thirteenth Step: Discovering Confidence, Self-Reliance and Independence Beyond the Twelve Step Programs by Tina B Tessina
“A well written, important book that provides an invaluable corrective to the dependency orientation of the recovery movement. It lucidly points the way to the next step: the cultivation of independence and personal autonomy. Imperative reading for every graduate of the twelve-steps.” -- Nathaniel Brandon, PhD Psychologist and author of Honoring the Self ...
  

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How To Be a Couple and Still Be Free by Tina B Tessina
“Being a couple yet free is our next challenge on the evolutionary ladder. This book successfully helps us unravel the myths that block that achievement. It does it with warmth, with readability, and with balance. It recreates everyday problems and paints the path to their solution” – Warren Farrell, PhD Author of Why Men Are the Way They Are. “Full of useful suggestions, the most impo...
  

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The 10 Smartest Decisions a Woman Can Make Before 40 by Tina B Tessina
"One of the best books for women that I have read. It takes desires and dreams and shows you a step-by-step practical way to achieve them. For any woman who wants to do more than talk about changing her life, a road map to her goal." Sonya Friedman, Ph.D. "Sonya Live" on CNN Why do some women seem as if they have it all together? Because they do. Do you? Or do you frequently se...
  

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The Ten Smartest Decisions a Woman Can Make AFTER Forty by Tina B Tessina
"At last, a book for 40+ women that does not focus on growing old gracefully, but on finishing the process of growing up, finally becoming a fully actualized adult. The suggestions Tina Tessina offers for creating a more fulfilling life particularly speak to the modern, mature woman." -- Isadora Alman, syndicated "Ask Isadora" columnist and author....
  

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Poetry

Mosaic Heart
 by Tina B Tessina


Redemption
 by Tina B Tessina


The Shape of Peace
 by Tina B Tessina
Words and Music by Tina Tessina ...


Inspiration
 by Tina B Tessina
by Tina B. Tessina...


Eternal Dance - Christmas 2005
 by Tina B Tessina
2005's holiday/New Year poem ...


On Mitch and Jackie’s engagement
 by Tina B Tessina
by Tina B. Tessina July, 2005 ...


On love
 by Tina B Tessina
Haiku...


Vessels
 by Tina B Tessina
(Shaped like a pot or jar)...


Storytellers
 by Tina B Tessina


Bitter lesson
 by Tina B Tessina
haiku...


ANGELS IN DISGUISE
 by Tina B Tessina
Happy Holidays to all! A Christmas song lyric by Tina Tessina music by Ron Creager...



Articles

Dr. Romance on Gratitude, Kindness and Happiness
 by Tina B Tessina
Your thoughts affect your mood, and how you relate to yourself can either lift or dampen your spirits....


Dear Dr. Romance: why are men in their mid 40s-50s attracted to 20ish girls
 by Tina B Tessina
Whether or not a relationship is healthy is not determined by age differences, but by the interaction between the partners....


What Is A Dysfunctional Relationship?
 by Tina B Tessina
Dysfunctional Relationships are relationships that do not perform their appropriate function....


Dear Dr. Romance: at funerals, how do you comfort families in mourning?
 by Tina B Tessina
Dr. Romance helps a reader to find the best way to comfort a family in grief....


Dear Dr. Romance: What Is The Grieving Process?
 by Tina B Tessina
Grief is an essential life skill -- knowing how to survive grief means feeling safe to take another risk, and grieving actually expands one's capacity to love....


Relating With Love
 by Tina B Tessina
Dr. Romance writes about healthy communication as a key to a healthy marriage. ...


Your Primary Relationship
 by Tina B Tessina
The relationship you have with everyone else is based on your relationship with you....


Setting Boundaries and Saying No
 by Tina B Tessina
Knowing how to set appropriate boundaries can make the difference in your relationship...


The One Who Got Away
 by Tina B Tessina
Can this really work, or will it just fall apart again? Here’s how to see if you and your ex can make it work....


Dear Dr. Romance: How can I move forward when I hit a setback?
 by Tina B Tessina
When one hits a setback in life what are some healthy ways to keep moving forward?...


Dr. Romance on: No Cooperation? Solve It Yourself!
 by Tina B Tessina
What do you do after you have tried everything and your partner, friend, child or colleague still won't negotiate? ...


Lovestyles
 by Tina B Tessina
Dr. Romance writes about love as a force for change in your life. ...


Dear Dr. Romance: Should a Mother Push Her Daughter to Contact Her Estrange
 by Tina B Tessina
If the child has not had a real relationship with her father, should a mother keep pushing?...


Dear Dr. Romance: What do I need to do to become a therapist?
 by Tina B Tessina
Dr. Romance advises a student on the meaning of "therapy is an art you can only learn by practicing."...


The Magic of Reassurance
 by Tina B Tessina
Dr. Romance writes about the importance of reassurance in a relationship. ...


Dr. Romance Video: on Dating as a Single Parent
 by Tina B Tessina
Dr. Romance, addresses common issues that come up when dating as a single parent. ...


Dear Dr. Romance: To this day I am not sure why he became so angry
 by Tina B Tessina
Dr. Romance helps a reader look into what went wrong with a past relationship....


How to Heal a Rift with an Adult Child
 by Tina B Tessina
Dr. Romance addresses how to heal a rift between adult children and their parents. ...


Dear Dr. Romance: What type of dating safety precautions should one take?
 by Tina B Tessina
Dr. Romance answers a question from a reader on how to use dating services safely....


Dr. Romance Video: Dating after Widowhood
 by Tina B Tessina
Dr. Romance discusses advice on dating after widowhood....


The Worrier’s Guidelines
 by Tina B Tessina
Dr. Romance writes about how to be an effective worrier. ...


Jealousy, Faithfulness, and Distance
 by Tina B Tessina
Dr. Romance addresses best way to keep a long distance relationship thriving. ...


Dear Dr. Romance: How Can I get over the nervousness of dating again?
 by Tina B Tessina
If your last relationship lasted for a while dating again can be scary. Let Dr. Romance help. ...


Your Job on Earth
 by Tina B Tessina
Dr. Romance writes about the inner voice and self-discovery...


Dear Dr. Romance: I can't get my ex out of my head and heart
 by Tina B Tessina
Dr. Romance helps a reader to decide if waiting for her ex is worthwhile....


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Home Town Girl Makes Good!
Front-page article in Tina's hometown newspaper: The Sullivan County NY Democrat

Dr. Romance Blog
Dr. Tessina blogs about love and life

Red Room Author Site
See Tina's page on this site for published authors.


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Long Beach   CA   90804-4883   USA

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