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Questions in relationships...

We've been together for awhile now-yes, for awhile.I ask, " Where is our relationship going?" -Seriously, I DO wonder sometimes...
"Where do I stand with you? Am I important in your life?" Cause some things that you say make me FEEL important, BUT
Am I?
" You love me, right?"
"Of Course," you say.
How much? I think that remains to be seen. You love me so much that you place certain conditions on our love; you love me so much you don't want me to move far away from you, but yet-you don't want to move to be with me. Not quite understanding that. BUT-
" You want to marry me someday, right?"
"Yes," you say. But we've been together how long and I can't even get a Promise Ring? Does it really take all of this time for us to ultimately be together? OR am I just trippin?...
I wonder, I ask myself these questions all of the time. Is my man worth me doing the following:
Sacrifice:
Closing doors that were and are open for me-in all aspects of life
Living somewhere I don't want to be
Trying to alternate careers so that I can be that "respectable" woman that your family can adore
Change a lifestyle that I am not sure I am ready to change...
Basically, I'm changing myself to have you-cause like Beyonce, I'm "Dangerously in Love," BUT--
I guess my question to you is, " Are you going to change for me?"