Unrealistic man and woman
By Dr. Shalomim Y. HaLAhawi
©2009
What’s the worth of a woman in whom has betrayed all your trust
The value of a metal that eventually turns into rust
She has constantly lied, and kept secrets from your knowledge
Laid in the bed with other men as she picked from their wallet
Played you for a fool as if she was the most faithful by your side
Premeditated lust and adultery, was the secrets she would hide
Never would have told you, had she not been exposed
20 years from now, the lie would still have been told
Claims she loves you so much, and realized she made a mistake
But love wasn’t an issue in the bed with the man she lay
You never get closure, don’t know the name nor ever seen this man before
your life just put at risk for secret sins behind closed doors
he gets off so easily, walks away with no details of who he is
he could be in your face at anytime, for days or months or years
She expects to be on top as your goddess, as if she created your soul
She talks back, runs her mouth, and rebels on things she’s been told
Shes slack on education, clumpsy in using her intellect
Waisting the money you invested to bring out her talents at best
She loves to be out-going but rarely picks up and reads the bible
And then she expects you, to trust her as reliable
You warn her of what you don’t like and whats tearing the relationship apart
But she continues down the same road, as if she has no mind and heart
She thinks she can answer you, any way she wants to
She will get the last word out, doesn’t care about disrespecting you
She argues with you constantly and always try to prove you wrong
Doesn’t realize she’s losing you and it wont be before too long
Her attitude and responses violates the ethical traditions of every ethnic culture
Picks at your emotions to explode like a vulture
She yells at the children as if they cannot learn so well
But they learned it from their mother, but that’s not something to tell
She doesn’t respect your wishes, doesn’t do much to please you
She does exactly what your ex-lovers did, in order just to hurt you.
Her mouth makes you sick, the source of much problems, the main cause
She doesn’t seem to care, its whats going to cause her own downfall
She acts like child when she cant have her way
You question her about her issues that’s when she has nothing to say
She will deny everything she does, that makes the marriage falter
It makes a man feel hopeless and began to not even bother
She carelessly gains weight and your advice she doesn’t listen
Undermining her health when both are supposed be holistic
Yet No matter what you say, she expects a perfect marriage
But wants that perfection while she still carrys all her former baggage
You sleep in the same bed, but the passion is not there
Sex with no love, touch with no care
She pushes you away , especially when she’s sleep
You ask youself, “is this the woman for me to keep?”
You ask yourself everyday, whats the purpose , why are we are here?
You are soo stressed and unhappy, but you dare to shed a tear
You pray for another woman, to perhaps come and sweep you away
You look out the window for her coming each and every day
You feel you need a strink, to help you solve all of this
But dam you forget, you are a trained psychologist
A strink needing a strink, what else can the world endure
Can a marriage as this be perfected, nobody can tell for sure?
The good she trys to do is side-swiped by the mounting bad
Happiness is a theory, because the household is sad
How can you ever forgive her, the sins she committed against you
When the things that make you unhappy, she continues on to do.
Yet you try to hold your peace and pray thing work out for the best
You continue to be a husband and father to past the patience test
But the renewal of the marriage is coming very near
The closer to the date, the more you sweat with fear
You know you love this woman, some how deep down inside
But don’t think that you can handle another 7 year hell of a ride
You have enough problems, some issues with your health
Don’t need added drama of the issues of somebody esle
You feel if she has deliberately betrayed you, then she can do it again
You don’t want to deal with being hurt again by someone else’s sin
So all the problems have mounted up, decisions must be made
Soon you must face to renew or just let the relationship fade
But she doesn’t know your true feelings and neither you of she
For communication between the two is faint, a misty destiny
Yet she talks of living together forever, but nothing of things that should change
She hasn’t shown submission as a woman by nature ordained
So a counselor can be an option, but your’re sluggish to seek to hire
Having someone else tell them what to do, is something not admired
She ignores the possible consequences, of the following months a comin
But what else can be expected, when you have an unrealistic man and woman.