Blogs by Barbara J Henry
Using Love's 5 Langauges to Help Ourselves and Others
2/15/2010 7:16:32 PM
Many ways exist to express or show our true feelings for our loved ones whether they are our spouses,our children or our friends.Getting to know our loved ones' primary "love language" will help us to promote their personal growth and well-being as well as our own.
Are you wondering why I am writing about love after Valentine's Day has ended?
I asked myself that question too,and I decided to write any way because love is,as it should be, celebrated daily, throughout the year,throughout our lives.
It is important to know what is really valuable to our loved ones so that we can do our part to enrich their lives and our lives also.
Getting to know our loved ones'primary "love language,"
that thing that really makes them know we care,will help us to promote their personal growth and well-being as well as our own,because when our loved ones are growing and happy,we are too.
In his book:"The Five Love Languages",Gary Chapman does a wonderful job of identifying,describing,and explaining the 5 languages of love. He also emphasizes the importance of knowing our loved ones' and our own primary love languages.
According to Chapman, the 5 love languages are:
1.Words of Affirmation
2.Quality Time
3.Receiving Gifts
4.Acts of Service
5.Physical Touch
These,on the surface, appear quite simple, but, if we are using the wrong language in our interactions with those we love,we can see how easily problems can develop.
Love of spouses,children,and friends are so important to our overall well being.
Let's take the time to identify and to speak the love languages of those we cherish and value.
What To Do Next:
*Identify your primary love language as well as the languages of your spouse,children,and friends;
*Use these languages daily in your interactions with your loved ones;
*Share your primary love language with your love ones so that they can speak your language to encourage you.
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