Blogs by Denise Contreras
The best thing that happened in my life.
1/21/2007 9:07:48 PM
Sharing some blessings that has happened in my life
The best thing that happened in my life was on August 14th 1995 it was when I got sober and stopped drinking the reason that getting sober was the best thing for me is because from not drinking I got a clearer head and I learned how to live life sober and clean and with God in my life.
Also I met Phil and in 1996 we started dating then in 1997 we moved in with each other he has been a blessing in my life. We lived with each other for a long time from 1996 tell 1-14-07 then on Sunday 1-14-2007 we got married the wedding was the best day of my life.
When I met Phil he treated me like a lady he was kind and loving I was not used to being treated with love.
He opened car doors and always opened doors for me no matter where we were no matter who was around he always treated me like a lady. He did not put an act on when he was around others he acted the same way as when we were alone he is a true gentlemen. I was abused most of my life and in my first marriage that was one reason I waited so long to marry Phil.
Still to this day Phil opens doors for me and treats me like a lady. He still loves me and he met me when I was thin and healthy and today he still treats me with love and respect as he did when he met me.
I would never trade him in or sell him lol no way he is stuck with me.
I love him with all my heart. We have gone through so much together the loss of his mother when we just started dating she passed away and I was there to support him he has been there for me when I was taken to court by my son and adoptive mom he was there for me when a dear friend of both of ours passed away he was here for me. He was there for me when I was going through memories from the abuse in my childhood and I know I did not make it easy for him the first few years of our relationship I know was hard I was having lots of emotional things going on and I was in therapy and he was there for me and never gave up on me. We went through hell together and now were in heaven together here on earth.
When I was diagnosed with Lupus in 2004 he was there for me and he read all about Lupus so he would be able to understand what I am going through. He takes time to understand even though he does not live with Lupus he lives with it in a different way, he is very supportive I cannot ask for anything more. God has blessed me in many ways.
Phil also has a strong belief in God were both not religious people but we both have strong faith and belief in the Spirit and that is why we have the love we have.
We put God first in our relationship and because of that we have a relationship and were both sober we have peace in our life and joy this is only because of God in our life.
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