Blogs by Eileen Clemens Granfors
Help for What Ails Ya
1/8/2008 1:06:08 PM
I was reluctant to ask him into my life. . .
I was at my wit's end when I finally got through all the red tape required by my HMO to see a psychologist, and I was a nervous wreck the first time I went.
No need! My doctor has given me concrete strategies for coping with the everyday frustrations of living in a small house with an old woman I barely know (mother-in-law) who does not have all her wits about her.
He has given me a view for some of the issues my husband must be feeling as he copes with his mother's diminishing mind and my increasing anger.
The doctor allows me to cry in pain without judging me as being selfish or a big baby. He urges me to find solutions, and not just use our sessions to vent.
If you are in turmoil, with a relationship or with life in general, a psychologist can be a source of new strength. Wishing the best to all who suffer grief, pain, loneliness, heartbreak, or disappointment--that covers most of us, doesn't it? Best advice I ever received: go get help. My friends and family members are sometimes excellent listeners, prayer works too, but for me, my doctor has truly saved my life. Eileen
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