• Negative Mind Chatter tells you everything you cannot have.
• You have made this divorce mean all kinds of bad things about you.
• You are plagued with regret, resentment and anger.
• Your ex seems to have moved on and you haven’t.
• You have overwhelming feelings of sadness.
• You are fearful of an uncertain future.
• You feel like a victim.
• You are having problems coping with life.

• You were empowered and in control of your life?
• You could see and start on the road to a better future for yourself?
• You were able to find the gifts of this divorce and use them to be your personal best?
• You were able to let go of the burden of all the negative feelings surrounding your divorce?
• You could be in full acceptance of your life as it exists right now and be happy with it?
• You could reclaim your enthusiasm and optimism about life and see all the possibilities and opportunities that exist?

---

My personal experience with divorce, my years of success in working with clients who have struggled with the challenges of divorce and my training as a professional Divorce Recovery Life Coach have gifted me with powerful methods to help you recover and thrive during and after your divorce!

---

Shelley has been one of the most important and influential people in my divorce process. She has given me the tools to remember that my, process and healing is what is important during this critical time. Shelley always reminds me of the power of choice, and the remembrance to make empowering and affirming choices for myself at any given moment. I have quickly progressed in my grieving process and Shelley has been a very important and essential part of that progression. I will forever use and be grateful for the tools that she has offered to me.”

---

I don’t know what I would have done without Shelley’s guidance through this divorce. I felt so hopeless but she has given me the inspiration to go on. Her first hand experience of how painful a divorce can be, gives her all the knowledge a person could possibly need to help others.”

---

“You have given me a new insight into moving on into a much higher level, not only in my divorce but in the way I will live each day. That knowledge is a big gift for which I will be eternally grateful. It has already made me change the way I feel about my ex…and I have significantly moved into a higher level of forgiveness.”

---

Shelley Stile is professional Divorce Recovery Life Coach, Author and Speak. Her forthcoming book, 95 Tips To Transform Your Life After Divorce, will be published this Fall. She coaches her clients on a one-on-one basis in addition to leading workshops and tele-seminars. She has also taught at the Adult Schools of Chatham and Montclair, NJ. Shelley is herself a divorced, mother of two. Receive Shelley’s free e-book on coping with divorce at www.freedivorcesupportbook.com.