I would never cramp your style for this is all true. i am a neat freak and really enjoy a clean neat place to live. I hate dishes in the sink and I dont have roaches at all. I dont have to clean so much because i clean up behind myself at all times. Sometimes just as you I wish to walk away from the dishes but i wont let them sit ever in my sink. I feel so comortable with cleanliness. I deinitely relate again to another outstanding expression of yours from the heart.