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Sex, Lies & the Internet - An Online Dating Survival Guide (Book) - 8/30/2008 10:10:59 AM
A commendable book indeed! Nowadays, one must be "wise as a serpent and innocent as a dove" (Matt 10:16)RSV. Best wishes, George Norton

Infidelity Expert Explains Reasons why Detroit Mayor Kilpatrick Cheated (Short Story) - 11/5/2009 9:16:06 PM
you have a very insightful mind enjoy reading your stories and looking forward to what you write next...

Dating Expert's Poll Shows Valentine's Day Interest Fading for Single Women (Short Story) - 3/24/2009 10:53:06 PM
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Why Men Cheat: Top 10 Reasons Why Men Cheat (Article) - 11/4/2009 10:41:40 AM
I think that people cheat, men and women alike, when the opportunity arises. There will always be gaps and struggles in relationships: emotional, financial and sexual! And these are huge reasons why men and women cheat. When they are faced with temptations, they become overwhelmed by it and they seize the chance to take advantage of a situation where they can get pleasure knowing that an affair will remain a secret after all. Certainly, it’s a human fault with the norms of society not allowing polygamy. Only a person with an utmost self-control, respect, and love for the partner cannot ever dare cheat. http://kayacamilla.com

Abusive Men: Top 10 Signs of an Abusive Man (Article) - 10/8/2009 8:06:36 AM
Its alarming to read this when almost all the signs point to abuse. It's so hard, very hard, especially when you also have an abusive family. Great article.

Affairs: Top 10 Reasons Why Men Have Affairs (Article) - 9/14/2009 11:12:41 AM
I think that a lot of men feel insecure about themselves, even though they might be a top executive in their field of work. They lack self-esteem, even with being at the top of their game and just like the extra attention of someone else to booster their ego! It doesn't matter that they might have an attractive, sexy, attentive wife at home fulfilling their every need, they just want the extra attention of someone different to do it for them. In fact, some men, because they are powerful at work seem to think that this extra attention is a reward for all that they have achieved and actually deserve it! It will boost their feelings about themselves even more and then they are on a real power trip! Sometimes being successful can be the downfall of a marriage and the wife, who is doing everything right, is the one that really gets hurt! Linda

Infidelity Expert, Stephany Alexander, advises on whether to spy on a mate (Article) - 8/23/2009 9:31:08 PM
It's a tough one but when you feel so emotional you just want to know the truth. There are lots of products on the market, such as phone spy software, key loggers etc but you have to comply with the law. http://www.spysupermarket.co.uk

Abusive Men: Top 10 Signs of an Abusive Man (Article) - 8/21/2009 2:27:40 AM
This article has hit the nail on the head. Unfortunately, it took a while before I realized it. I thought he was bipolar with the drastic mood swing and a couple other symptoms. Went to counselling on his request and it hit me like a ton of rocks. I researched abusive relationships and every sign listed within this article is something I have experienced...multiple times over the past 2 1/2 yrs. Every teenager and women should read the book, 'Why Does He Do That' so they are aware of the slow manipulative way these men operate.

Abusive Men: Top 10 Signs of an Abusive Man (Article) - 7/30/2009 11:19:07 AM
WONDERFULLY WRITTEN AND VERY MUCH NEEDED. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS EVERYONE'S CONCERN CHERIE

Abusive Men: Top 10 Ways to Spot Abusive Men (Article) - 7/15/2009 7:15:48 AM
Thank you.

Emotional Infidelity: Top 10 Signs of Emotional Infidelity (Article) - 6/30/2009 2:55:57 AM
Stephany, This is a very substantial article touching base on many troubled relationships. Your guide line signs are impecable advice. You have expressed here what what some people may see as very innocent to do, (cyber relationships) but it truly does destroy lives & loving off line relationships. People have moved from satisfying their selves with pornography to actual cyber sexing, and try to tell their self it is not infidelity. But it is because the persons are “live” & in real time through a chat cam. It’s astonishing how addicted to the net sexually some people are. They been doing it since the mid 90's! Can you believe such things?! Marriages are destroyed....The internet has a powerful emotional bonding for people through anonymity, and also fantasy...it is widely a new epidemic of infidelity. How can one get their spouse to stop? I enjoyed your article.... Peace, Love & Inspirations Vickie

Catch a Cheater: Top 10 Ways on How to Catch a Cheating Man (Article) - 5/23/2009 3:26:11 AM
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Catch a Cheater: Top 10 Ways on How to Catch a Cheating Man (Article) - 4/8/2009 4:18:51 AM
Sorry, but "Make him take a lie detector test?" How many reasonable partners would ever request that their spouse takes a lie detector test, unless the relationship is already beyond saving. Also the advice to not accuse your partner of cheating unless you have actual proof does not really go with "Make him take a lie detector test." If you have proof you don't need him to take a lie detector test. If you are asking him to do so you are, in no uncertain terms, accusing him of cheating. I think this article puts the cart before the horse. The question should not be how to catch a cheating spouse, but how to make the relationship so strong that infidelity either does not occur in the first place or, if it has happened, does not kill the marriage. The crunch is not the affair, the crunch is why the affair happened in the first place. The affair is a symptom of something not being as it should be, not the cause.

Adultery: Why Men are Prone to Adultery (Article) - 4/5/2009 10:30:17 AM
You may find my comments interesting! When I used to live in Las Vegas,prostiution was so advertised by calling them chicken ranches on the outskirts of Las Vegas.If I wanted to I could have easily gone to any one of them but I never did for two reasons.I know God see's everything on earth and God's 7th Commandment: Thou Shalt Not Commit Adultery.Alot of people are HIV Positive and don't even know it and alot of them die of AIDS.I not only learned to love God I also learned to fear him.

Why Men Cheat: Top 10 Reasons Why Men Cheat (Article) - 3/8/2009 3:41:55 PM
Nothing new here. This “so called list” of the reasons why men cheat on their spouses can be applied with equal conviction to the reasons why women do the same thing. The only difference is: when a man does it he is considered a Pig. However, when a woman does it she can make the claim that her needs weren’t being met. If anyone should doubt this just watch the movies: Fatal Attraction and The Bridges of Madison County for your proof. A complete double standard!

Abusive Men: Top 10 Signs of an Abusive Man (Article) - 1/2/2009 3:48:36 PM
I'm a Transpersonal Hypnotherapist and I left an abusive relationship with a succesful man and DV has an affect on many people. I left and you can too!

Abusive Men: Top 10 Signs of an Abusive Man (Article) - 12/22/2008 11:28:47 AM
I read your article and you are right on target, but do you have knowledge, and I'll bet you do, of the abusive nature of European men? E.

Why Men Cheat: Top 10 Reasons Why Men Cheat (Article) - 12/19/2008 10:15:51 AM
wow... i love the articles, however, I am a gay black male, but our endeavors dealing with ifidelity, responsibility and accountability in partnerships are a constant endeavor of mine.

Affairs: Top 10 Reasons Why Men Have Affairs (Article) - 12/18/2008 6:51:54 PM
I couldn't agree with the previous poster less. I think expecting to remain monogamous to one partner for the rest of your life is unrealistic. None of us are the people at 40 that we were at 19. Everyone changes and grows. Some grow closer but many develop into different people who want different things. I love romance but I genuinely believe that marriage forces people to conform to a lifestyle they are not designed for. In my opinion, this is why cheating is so common. Very interesting article.

Why Men Cheat: Top 10 Reasons Why Men Cheat (Article) - 11/28/2008 7:43:59 AM
When it happened to me, this was a prominent question. Why? We had a good marriage, no problems in bed, no fighting,and I suppose the only thing left was, she was there at work. She wanted him, tempted him and his ego had to prove it was still at work. He lost a good woman and he knows it. It's a shame that some men cannot see what they have until it's gone. I suppose women are the same, although, I feel that most of us, think before we act. We were in our 2nd year of marriage and it ended before the fourth year. KJ Jacobs

Why Men Cheat: Top 10 Reasons Why Men Cheat (Article) - 11/21/2008 3:51:12 AM
interesting read

Adultery: Why Men are Prone to Adultery (Article) - 11/21/2008 3:50:36 AM
well done

Abusive Men: Top 10 Signs of an Abusive Man (Article) - 11/3/2008 12:55:52 PM
The article "Abusive Men. Top 10 signs of an Abusive man" by Stephany Alexander is a must read for teenage and young women everywhere. This isn't a trait we'd normally look for in the people we date. If the abuser is skilled, he might not show obvious signs until they have you tied down with a wedding ring--or worse. Nice job Stephany

Abusive Men: Top 10 Signs of an Abusive Man (Article) - 10/27/2008 11:53:28 AM
As a Woman that has lived and wrote about Domestic Violence, often the warning signs aren't apparent until a relationship has formed. I know firsthand that abusive men are very efficient at manipulation and only allow their true core to surface when they need to maintain control. But this article is right on in the signs and I hope other abused women know that the only option is to safely leave. Unfortunately there are still so many misconceptions about domestic violence and I find it very frustrating. Any venue that targets this issue, as this article and the website obviously do, is sorely needed. Bravo! Shelley

Why Men Cheat: Top 10 Reasons Why Men Cheat (Article) - 10/21/2008 4:40:13 AM
Many people cheat without understanding the long term consequences of their behavior and are shocked when they are held accountable. It takes two to make a marriage or committed relationship but only one can throw it away. Good points here.

Abusive Men: Top 10 Signs of an Abusive Man (Article) - 9/28/2008 10:24:17 AM
A very good article. I did some research on this a while back and wrote a Novel on the subject called Show Time. One of the things that I discovered was common to male batterers was language. These men call women names like "whore," "bitch," "cun.," "slu.," etc. It's almost as though they all went to the same seminar on how to mistreat women. So, to all you women out there, if a guy calls you one of these names, run like the devil and don't look back. Terry

Cheating Man: Top 10 Signs of a Cheating Man (Article) - 9/23/2008 1:41:06 AM
Very well written. Thank you for sharing.

Catch a Cheater: Top 10 Ways on How to Catch a Cheating Man (Article) - 9/19/2008 1:55:26 PM