LET HIM KNOW THAT HE IS A SEXUAL KING

           As I have said earlier, men have egos, and sometimes this make them stubborn as to the course of life should be traveling on for success. A man can build a better mousetrap, if his woman gives him constructive criticism and compliments that encourages him to do better in his efforts for improvement, like for example, sexual activity. There are so many myths and stereotypes concerning sex, that men with their pride try directly to live up to them. I am not going to lie, sex is an important part of any relationship or marriage, and those that disagree never had good sex.

In addition, women also have pride and many feel they do not have the time to show a man how to please her and what position gives her the most pleasure. They feel it takes the pleasure out of sex, and make it seem like school is in session. Then you have that BIG thing called love, and that can complicate a person decision and tolerance to work with an unskilled sexual mate. Women have to look at things in the same perspective as men, and wonder, what if they are not sexually pleasing to her man. Yes, he would continue loving you, but privately looking for the woman that makes him have a powerful orgasm. I have said too many times, that people use sex as a determination for a relationship, while bypassing all the signs that make them incompatible. Nevertheless, if you want to keep your man happy, and keep others from trying to steal him, you have to make him feel good as a lover.

However, I cannot ignore the position of the woman, and understand that she needs to be pleased sexually as well. Therefore, I do not ask her to overlook her pleasure for the sake of her man. However, she can have pleasure, by killing two birds with one package of Alka-Seltzer, and that is making her man feel like he is the greatest lover, and with his ego blown, making him work overtime pleasing her. Please, do not get caught faking it, because that would destroy his feelings toward you, and make him feel inadequate as a man, who would find pleasure with another lover, possibly exploring ‘other’ sexual opportunities.

On the other hand, after you have done everything to make your man feel like he is the greatest lover, and he is still not measuring up in bed. Then you personally have some difficult decisions to make. I know I said love is everything, but going through life without being satisfied sexually, can make a person feel incomplete.    

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